I have a couple of questions regarding my experience with two Thai ladies I was with. Both were great girls and I had a great time with them. However, I would appreciate the view point of someone from Thailand who knows the culture there.
The first lady I was with in 2001 was very nice to me (I was 31 at the time) and we partied in Bangkok. I ran short on funds and she lent me some money till some money was sent over. She also put me up in her apartment for a short while. She even suggested we visit her village - which I wasn't into at the time. She gave me a card (photo ID) with her picture and name in English. When my dad mentioned this to his friend who is married to a Thai woman, the friend said she was a working girl. Also, she had pictures of her with foreigners and she told me she lived in South Africa for a while. She didn't want me to look at them though.
We met when she approached me in a non-sexual entertainment district in Bangkok and had some good times together. Do you think she was a working girl.
The second woman I met was at a massage parlor and she gave me a happy ending and we got friendly afterwards. We spent a couple of weeks as boyfriend/girlfriend in Pattaya where she worked. This was in 2011
She was 35 years old and a virgin. We had sex and fooled around but she was inexperienced sexually. Also, when I gave her some money — like 500 baht to go shopping while I browsed the internet, she did not want it. I gave it to her so she had some spending money and I could have some time to myself.
When I sent her some money from my country (at my initiative), she text me afterwards and wrote, "You did not tip." Did she mean she expected to be paid for her time? Is a girl working in a massage parlor giving happy endings considered a working girl?