She might not be a good girl after all!
Does your new love fit the profile of a good girl? Below are ten reason you might want to rethink whether or not she's as innocent as you think. One or two of the items on this list, no problem. Three or more, you might want to reconsider your choice of woman if you're looking for a wife.
1. She asks for money, hints she needs money, or you might be able to help her.
Don't be her buffalo and fall for the old "Mama sick, papa in hospital, I no money" garbage told to anyone who will listen.
2. She tells you Thai men are no good.
C'mon, are you stupid enough to believe this? All Thai men are so bad that their women don't want them? Where are all the Thai children coming from? Chance are high that she is the problem, not those dastardly Thai men.
3. She is constantly on the talking on the phone or texting while you're on a date.
A decent Thai woman would apologize profusely for answering the phone or sending a text while on a date with. If she doesn't apologize, give her the stink eye. Then you can ask if she minds getting her ass off the phone because she's supposed to be on a date with you. If you get any tude, or she refuses, get up and leave her with the bill.
4. She curses more than George Carlin.
I'm not talking about the occasional, "Oh, shit!" I'm talking about bar girl, gutter talk. Do you really want your lady to be this sort of lady? If so, stop reading this site. On this site, my readers have class. Or at least they think they do.
5. She's a smoker.
Most good Thai girls don't smoke. Don't believe me? Proceed with caution. That's all I'm going to say.
6. She wears more gold than Mr. T.
Some may disagree but in Thailand, women with class are rarely cover their body with a pound of gold. If they wear gold, it's done tastefully, not with their life savings around their necks and wrists.
7. Here body is covered with tattoos.
I'm not talking about a tiny little Tweety bird on her ankle, I'm referring to women with tattoos all over, including the tramp stamp. If you don't know what a tramp stamp is, do a little research.
8. She spends money without much thought, yet she doesn't seem to have a job.
Is she buying rounds at the bar? Spending money like it's going out of style? Where's the money coming from? Where does she work? If she can't answer, avoids the question, or you get a strong sense she's lying through her teeth, she may be a freelance prostitute, or she may have boyfriends taking care of her. She might just be an idiot who blows her salary in one night, or a lush, but combined with several of the other items on this list, she is undeserving of the good girl title.
9. Hangs out in bars every night or almost every night.
Decent Thai women who work, ordinarily go to work, come home, eat, wash their clothes, shower, watch TV, then go to sleep. They may go out once in a while but if you're looking for a good Thai girl, you might want to think twice of hanging with a barfly. If party girls are your thing, party on.
10. Her English is good, too good.
She's uneducated, yet somehow she speaks excellent English, sometimes with a British or Australian accent. Think about it. Very few Thai women practice English regularly enough to learn to speak the language well. Why? Discipline. If a man or woman is going to school or taking lessons to learn a language, they need discipline to do so. If she's never studied formally, chances are she may have learned from a former farang boyfriend or husband. There's also a chance she has worked overseas. Either way, it warrants further investigation.
Again, this alone does not mean you've got a bad girl, all it means that if she speaks great English, has no apparent means of support, is covered with gold, and has tattoos all over, you might want to give more thought to having a relationship with her.
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